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Why did my ex-narcissist move so fast with his new supply marriage engagement moving in, etc.?

12.06.2025 13:25

Why did my ex-narcissist move so fast with his new supply marriage engagement moving in, etc.?

Once they have a willing victim locked they move fast. After that they relax back into their usual self important, imperious, demanding self. The honeymoon phase lasts three months with these creatures.

They need a service provider! They need a cook, cleaner and sex object into which they can relieve themselves. Plus love bombing is a bit of a pain. It takes energy and constant self checking to keep up the nice guy front.

My advice: enjoy the three month ride then move along.

I caught my husband of 20 years looking at inappropriate pics of women on TikTok or Instagram. I'm not sure., but when I told him he got mad and made excuses of why they popped up. I then told him how I've snuck on his phone and saw what he's been looking at . We had a horrible big fight. I asked him why did he even marry me when I see the type he likes . Nothing like me, I'm petite, blonde and blue eyes. These women are dark haired dark eyed and have curvy bodies, large breasts, etc. I just don't feel the same about him after this. I can't get over this